A pre-wedding photoshoot is a relaxed portrait session for the two of you. It gives you photos for your stationery and your website, and it gives you a chance to practise being photographed. In some countries it is a big tradition. In others it is an optional extra.
Do you need a pre-wedding shoot?
Consider one if:
- You want photos for your save the dates or wedding website
- You feel nervous in front of a camera
- You want to try your photographer before the big day
- You have no good photos of the two of you together
Skip it if the cost takes money from something you care about more. Our wedding photographer cost guide shows what a package usually includes.
When to book and when to shoot
| Step | When |
|---|---|
| Book the photographer | 9 to 12 months before the wedding |
| Hold the shoot | 3 to 9 months before the wedding |
| Photos are edited | 2 to 4 weeks after the shoot, but ask your photographer |
| Use the photos on save the dates and your site | As soon as you have them |
If you want the photos on your save the dates, hold the shoot first. See our save the date ideas for timing.
Pre-wedding photoshoot locations
- Where you met or got engaged. It has meaning, and it tells a story.
- Your wedding venue. You see the light and you learn the best spots.
- A park, a beach or a hill. Natural light and room to move.
- A city street or a cafe. Good for a relaxed, everyday look.
- Your home. Private, warm and free.
Shoot near sunrise or sunset when you can. The light is soft and kind. Have a wet-weather plan.
Outfit ideas
- Choose colours that go together, not matching outfits
- Wear clothes that fit well and let you move
- Avoid big logos and very small stripes
- Bring a layer, such as a jacket, for a second look
- Wear shoes you can walk in
- Plan hair and makeup as for a nice night out
Pre-wedding photoshoot poses
You do not need to pose. Ask your photographer to give you things to do, and the photos will look natural.
- Walk together, holding hands, and talk
- Stand close, with your foreheads together
- Laugh at a joke that your photographer tells
- Hug, with one of you looking at the camera
- Dance in a slow circle
- Sit on a bench or a blanket and share a drink
How to prepare
- Share your wedding style with your photographer.
- Pick a location and a back-up for rain.
- Choose outfits a week ahead and try them on.
- Eat before the shoot, and bring water.
- Agree how many photos you will receive and when.
- Tell your photographer which photos you want for your stationery.
How to use your photos
- Save the dates and invitations
- Your wedding website
- A welcome sign or a framed photo at the venue
- A guest book or a photo wall
- Thank-you cards
Questions to ask your photographer
- Is the shoot included in my package, or an extra cost?
- How long is the session, and how many edited photos do I get?
- Can I use the photos on cards and online?
- What is the plan if it rains?
- Do you travel, and what does that cost?
Frequently asked questions
What is a pre-wedding photoshoot?
A pre-wedding photoshoot is a portrait session for the couple before the wedding day. It is also called an engagement shoot. The photos are used for save the dates, the wedding website, invitations and a welcome sign.
Is a pre-wedding photoshoot worth it?
It is worth it if you want photos for your stationery and website, or if you feel awkward in front of a camera. It gives you practice with your photographer. It is not worth it if the cost takes money from something you care about more.
When should you have a pre-wedding photoshoot?
Hold the shoot 3 to 9 months before the wedding. If you want photos for your save the dates, book it before you send them. Allow time for editing, which can take a few weeks.
How much does a pre-wedding photoshoot cost?
Prices depend on the photographer, the length, the location and the edits. Many wedding photographers include an engagement shoot in a package, or offer it at a lower rate. Ask for the price when you ask for the wedding quote.
What should we wear to a pre-wedding photoshoot?
Wear clothes you feel good in, in colours that suit you both and the place. Avoid big logos and very small patterns. Bring a second outfit if you want variety.
Should our wedding photographer do the pre-wedding shoot?
It helps if they do. You get to know each other, and you see how they work. If your photographer does not offer it, choose someone whose style matches your wedding photos.
Plan the photos on the day too
Guests take hundreds of photos. Collect them in one shared QR code album so you keep them all.
Related guides: Wedding Photographer Cost, QR Code Wedding Photos, Your Wedding Planning Timeline.